feat: port QA/money fixes from tehran_taj (atomic document confirm, validated inputs, expert customer edit/toggle/weights, made-to-order, grid sort/customer column)

Order-revision workflow kept as is: the direct admin line-edit routes were not ported.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/api/src/modules/accounting-sync/accounting-sync.service.ts

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ import { OTP_ONLY_PASSWORD_HASH } from '../auth/password-hash';
 import { ActiveProvider, AccountingConfigService } from './accounting-config.service';
 import { AccountingConfig } from './accounting-config';
 import { JalaliDate, parseJalali, toJalali } from './jalali';
+import { documentWeightTolerance } from './document-check';
 import {
   AccountingProviderError,
   CustomerPayload,
@@ -844,7 +845,7 @@ export class AccountingSyncService {
       new Prisma.Decimal(0),
     );
     const mismatch = docGold.sub(order.totalGoldWeightGrams).abs();
-    if (mismatch.gt('0.01')) {
+    if (mismatch.gt(documentWeightTolerance(order.items.reduce((s, i) => s + i.quantity, 0)))) {
       throw new NeedsReviewError(
         `جمع وزن سند (${docGold.toFixed(3)}) با وزن سفارش (${new Prisma.Decimal(order.totalGoldWeightGrams).toFixed(3)}) نمی‌خواند`,
       );